Being single is weird and it blows
 

So there I am last nihgt....

Having a good time. Met someone about my age. It's karaoke night, she sings my favorite song, everything is going great....until the end of the night.

It's about time to make 'arrangements' sop I suggest a mutual car ride. Her answer?'No thanks, I'm happily married, but I can get you a ride home.'

Seemed kind of weird, all the signals were there, and I definitely wasn't looking for a driver. Turns out she's married to a rich guy.....a really rich guy. Not only does she have a driver but has another driver show up to drive me home. Now let me paint a picture. I drive a 2007 Dodge Caliber. It sucks but fuel economy and maintenance are almost nothing and I drive it back and forth to Louisiana alot.

So here I am, my own personal driver, full suit, hat, the whole bit to drive my car home. He insists I sit in the back seat. As it is when I drive when I change lanes I already have to look out the back passanger windows. Now this ahole wants me to sit in the back of my own car that's really built for teens or full grown Japanese people. I convinced him to let me ride in the front (of my own car) and made it home safely.

Side note: super rich married ladies, just tell us ahead of time. It's not a big deal but we won't waste our nights on thinking things may make a turn for the better. And yes, her driver followed me, so not only did I get a ride home but then her driver picked him up and took him wherever drivers go.

I know, stupid story, but it was my first foray into singledom and it sucked ass.

Oh I know what ya mean mate...
I was in Finland for a year,this one night I go to a bar with a friend, he hooks up with someone and I'm at the corner drinking alone. After a while I spot this hot chick and I go over to talk to her.Blond-blue eyes-huge boobs. Bla bla bla, we get out of the bar for a smoke ( I was smoking back then) and the conversation goes as follows...
-Me:Listen you have two choices,you either come at my place or I'm coming to yours
-Her:Ok let's go to your place
-Me:My place is kind of far (it really was) let's go to your place
-Her:WE CAN'T MY HUSBAND IS THERE
___silence___
-Me: Ok lets go to my place then...
____walking and after 5 minutes____
-Her: I'm a bad mother...
-Me: WHAT?
-Her:I got a little baby boy (and shows me his picture on her cell phone)
-Me: Are you fucking kidding me?
And we go separate ways
I had no problem getting it on with a married woman (I know I'm an ass)...but a married woman with a kid,no...
My night was ruined
Got to my apartment alone thinking WTF did just happen?
LOL
I know it sucks mate but shit happens...better luck next time

I have to ask what does it matter if she has a kid(I wouldnt be out drinking and partying with a kid, but if someone is taking care of her kid and she wants to do that isnt her choice?




Yikes sorry biggin



I sometimes miss being single, but I have a kid now so things are so different


And while I was single I was really wild and out of control, and I dont want to be like that ever again, there was some fun times though, I do miss sex and variety sex and the girls...

Not to speak out of turn but I was thinking he more meant to show him on their way to do things a married woman shouldn't do, not to mention show him pictures of her kid on the way. Hell, you get to be my age, everyone is either divorced, married, has a kid or lives on a desert island alone.

Sure he didn't mean anything by it. If every woman looked like you after having a child every woman would have 10. :)

I wasnt saying it was right, I was merely saying it was her choice that is all.


thanks big:)


It was hard work getting my body back after the baby, that is for sure....

BS. You probably ate a Lean Cuisine and look better t6han 99% of women at large. JK, but you are smoking and deserve all the justification for it.

LOL thanks, nope I eat strict not packaged foods, close to a paleo diet:p

It was totally her right yeah. But what I meant was that I myself wasn't good with that so I let her go back.